Hello there reader! First post– I am really excited. It’s hard to choose what to put in here as a first post, but finally managed to write about dating. So.. here goes!
Let’s face it—dating is a cruel and confusing game. I myself have been a victim of horrible first dates– never have I felt awkwardness in my entire life. I don’t know if men will chance upon my blog, but I hope they will– because this post is about the common mistakes men make in dating.
Some men find it hard to go past that first date, because everything went horribly wrong in all directions. Physical attraction, of course, is always a good thing—but you have to understand that there’s more to it than meets the eye.
If you want to at least score yourself a fourth or fifth date, you have to avoid making these mistakes that are bound to put an end to that first date. The thing is– women get easily turned off, according to this Yahoo! article—so make it a point to keep everything under control.
Mistake #1: Being too clingy. You’re a man. The word “clingy” shouldn’t even be in your vocabulary to begin with. When women see that slightest hint of cling in you, prepare for a major mood swing moment, or eventually her leaving you right there and then. Stop being too possessive—it’s not attractive. Show her that you have your own life to deal with. Keep on doing those things you love, and don’t show her that she is the centre of your universe. I get it, you’re just trying to be sweet and all—but don’t tell me I didn’t warn you if there comes a time when she’ll immediately leave you after you’ve called her 25 times in a row because she wouldn’t pick up the phone on your movie night Wednesdays.
Mistake #2: Arrogance. There’s no need to remind her on every date that you were a high school god, or a class valedictorian in college. You don’t have to explicitly tell her that you make a seven-figure amount yearly, or tell her details about that latest new car you bought for the second time this month. NO. Women love confidence, but hate arrogance to bits. I know you want to show her that you know how to flirt with a girl, but please, do keep it on a lowdown. So stop bragging. Modesty is sexy, trust me on this one.
Mistake #3: Not Following Through. Bottom line is, do not let words right out of your mouth if you have no intentions of acting up on them. If you say that you’ll come pick her up after her yoga class, do so. If you tell her that you’ll fix her leaking faucet early in the morning tomorrow before work, set up three alarm clocks on your bedside so you can wake up and fix her leaking faucet the next day. Go the distance, women will appreciate it if you consistently do things as you say—they’d love you more for it.
Dating is a fun game, yet you should always prepare yourself for the ride. It’s not always promising, but if you steer clear from these mistakes, you’re on to a good start. Also, improve yourself by learning the latest dating techniques if you must – a good site that we recommend is SonicSeduction.net – go take a look. Good luck!